This week I was presented with the
following scenario:
A major catastrophe has almost
completely devastated the infrastructure of your country. The emergency
government has decided that the surviving citizens will be best served if they
are evacuated to other countries willing to take refugees. You and your immediate
family are among the survivors of this catastrophic event. However, you have
absolutely no input into the final destination or in any other evacuation
details. You are told that your host country’s culture is completely different
from your own, and that you might have to stay there permanently. You are
further told that, in addition to one change of clothes, you can only take 3
small items with you.
I was then asked to describe which
items I would choose to take and how I could/would explain their meaning. After arriving in the new country, I would
then be told that I could only keep one of the three chosen items.
I
have thought about situations like this many times, especially in regards to
war and disastrous conditions around the world, when teaching about fire safety
and when severe weather comes to call in my region, as we can often be subject
to tornadoes, damaging storms in all seasons, and flooding. What I have come to discover is that the harder
I think, the less I need materially. I
would be incredibly thankful to be able to have my immediate family with me;
however, I would miss the remainder of my family the most. Most of my valuable items live in my mind and
in my heart, so my three items would be reflections of that.
The
first thing that I would take would be a photograph of my mother. She is an integral component to my family,
and a major influence in most of what we do.
She would, without a doubt, be the most missed item in our new
world. I would likely then defer my
other two choices to my children, allowing them to each choose something that
means the most to them.
My
decision reflects perfectly how I view my family culture. We place great merit in our close family and
value each other above all else. Our
children come first and foremost. My
husband, as a father and a husband, would be content in knowing that his three
ladies would get to choose. My role, as
a wife and mother, is to respect my husband’s wishes and put others’ needs
before my own.
If
I was then told to only bring one item, there would be no question that the picture
would remain. My children would
understand that being able to consult with their grandmother, even if only
through a picture, would carry much more weight than the tangible items they
had chosen. I am proud of the fact that
know deep down in my heart that the most important things in my life can always
be with me as they live within me.
