Myself as a Communicator

After evaluating myself as a communicator based on verbal aggressiveness, communication anxiety, and listening skills, there were some facets of my style that were a bit surprising. 

I was well aware of my public speaking anxiety—it has been this way since I was a young, shy child.  As I grew, I often found myself in situations where I was in the minority of the group (the youngest, the only female, etc.) which affected my confidence and therefore my ability to effectively speak to groups.  Now that I am working in a field I am passionate about, I find it easier to speak to others with confidence, although I always prefer being prepared rather than speaking spontaneously—especially when it involves something that I care tremendously about.  I think that be staying up to date on information, forming critical bonds with children and families, and developing support systems I can slowly build my confidence in this area and be able to share more easily when it counts.

I was also not surprised by the fact that my verbal aggressiveness score was higher according to my family member as opposed to the score that was attained by my colleague.  I think that sometimes I take advantage of the ability to relax more at home and, unfortunately it is not always in a positive fashion.  I tend to lash out more among those I am closest too, and it reflects in how they perceive me as a communicator. 

I found it most interesting that I can be seen to have several different listening styles.  I can even see it in myself, as I found some of the questions in the survey to have multiple answers for me depending on context.  I will do my best to be more cognizant of the manner in which I am presenting myself and ensure that I am using the best tools for the job!